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Finding New Relationships
One of the most challenging things that we do in our lives is finding and establishing new relationships. Not only is it often difficult finding others that we connect with, handling things just right so that the connection grows into a healthy relationship can sometimes seem like navigating through a maze.
And while success can sometimes be elusive in this area, we have more control than most people would believe. Through continuing to learn, working hard, and having a positive attitude, one can drive positive results when looking for new relationships. Below are three areas where attention can be spent to drive some positive results.
Increasing your knowledge
Regardless of your level of knowledge of dealing with others and your level of communications skills, there is always room to learn more and become more effective. The reason why there is always something to learn is that we all have different personalities, we all have different needs, and we all have different interests, making every interaction is different and unpredictable. That being the case, it is virtually impossible to be a master and in complete control in different social situations. We can always improve the way we interact with others and the best way to improve is to learn more about yourself and to learn more about the people you interact with.
Attraction: One area that is would be beneficial to spend time and attention when continuing to learn is the area of attraction. Men and women are very different physical specimens. We are not only different at the biological level; we are also very different at the psychological level. We have different needs and we have different interests. By increasing your knowledge and awareness of these differences, you can improve your effectiveness in creating and maintaining attraction from others. Gaining knowledge in this area can be key to finding new relationships.
Rapport: Another area to focus attention is the area of rapport. You can create all the attraction you want, but if you can’t establish a connection, establish a level of comfort, and establish trust, new relationships will not go anywhere.
There is a tremendous amount of information available on these subjects that can be accessed to help someone get their knowledge to the next level. From information on the internet, to books and videos, to seminars and coaches, there are all different types of options.
Improving yourself on the inside and out
Improving yourself on the inside refers to an effort to become wiser and stronger mentally. Some examples of activities that can help with this are taking classes, reading, getting hobbies, etc. These activities can help make someone more intelligent, more stable, more interesting, and more confident. These are qualities that can drive interest, respect, and attraction from others.
Improving yourself on the outside involves placing an effort on optimizing your physical appearance. This can be accomplished by putting attention in the areas of grooming, fashion, and physical fitness. By looking good, you will feel good. If you feel good, you will be happier and more confident and will be more attractive to others. Increasing activity
The more exposure you get to new people, the more likely you are to have success with finding and establishing new relationships. The best way to get exposed to new people is to stay active in a variety of ways. Examples of ways to stay active are getting out with family and friends, attending social functions, joining professional and social organizations, and volunteering. Effort in this area will provide opportunities to meet new people, help to sharpen and improve your social skills, and will make you a busier and more interesting person.